IT WAS THE BEST AND THE WORST!
I hope that you all had a great 4th of July weekend and that all of your pets were safe and back to normal, now that the fireworks are over. Denise and I spent the 4th among the red rocks in beautiful Sedona, Arizona where we have a vacation home. Of course, Cisko and the amazing Skyler were with us -- they adore chasing the lizards in the yard and I’ve purchased a kiddy pool for the guys as well. All they’ve done is drink the water so far, but I assure you by the end of the week they’ll be snorkeling like pros. By the way, in a future blog I’ll tell you the story of a dog that I really had to teach to dive underwater in an underwater doggy diving suit.
On the 4th, we attended a small patriotic parade, I mean small town, Clarkdale Arizona. It was amazing to see how even small towns celebrate America in big ways. Theirs was a parade, which consisted of five members of the local V.F.W. led by the town’s antique fire truck, then a parade of kids on patriotic decorated bikes, the dog dressed like Uncle Sam, and even a goat celebrated the day. The morning started with a pancake breakfast sponsored by the local firefighters and police, and went into late afternoon with a band playing patriotic music in the town square -- it was like being part on a Norman Rockwell painting. So much for my 4th -- let me hear about yours and your pets.
WOMAN KILLS HER DOGS TO BE WITH FIANCEE IN HAWAII!
This incredible and sick story appeared on the MSNBC website, as reported by NBC news.
Question: About a year ago, I made the heart-wrenching decision to leave a great job, house, friends to move to Hawaii with my fiancé.
As part of the transition, I also chose to have my two beloved chow chow dogs put to sleep. This was done for a variety of reasons, including their age and temperament, the smaller living quarters in Hawaii, the tropical climate and frequent travels, all with the goal of making our new life as stress-free as possible. I adored those dogs, but I justified their sacrifice to the greater good of a successful relationship.
The letter goes on with the woman exclaiming that after six months she is still feeling tormented by the memories of her dogs.
ANSWER BY A HUMAN PSYCHIATRIST
It was reasonable for you to join your fiancee in Hawaii. And maybe it would not have been fair to take the dogs, because of the factors you mention. You didn’t want the dogs to suffer, and they didn’t. But it’s really clear you now recognize this decision was extreme.
The Doctor went on to give some interesting concepts, like you could have found a home for the dogs and even went on that perhaps adopting a dog in need from a shelter and that it might help with your guilt.
Last week on the Radio shows I gave my thoughts, like how could a meaningful relationship even begin, when you have to give up your family -- “YES, PETS ARE PART OF THE FAMILY” -- for it. Bearing in mind that I deal with animal psychology not human psychology, anyone can surmise that this woman needs some serious psychological help. How anyone could kill their pets after twelve years is beyond my comprehension -- this is a sick woman who needs help and despite the doctor’s suggestion to adopt another pet, I do not know any worthwhile humane group that would let her!
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HUGS AND KISSES
Warren Eckstein